Dyslexia: Not a Score

A number of years ago, I had the good fortune to take part on a panel during a symposium on dyslexia sponsored by the grassroots parenting group, Decoding Dyslexia: NJ.  Dr. Sally Shaywitz, the author of “Overcoming Dyslexia” was the keynote speaker. While talking...

Don’t Wait For School’s Blessings: Trust Your Gut

Anxiety over a child’s school-based problems can start very early. After reading The Shut-Down Learner, a mom contacted me.  "My son's drowning in in school.  Do you think he could be a shut-down learner," she asked. After asking a few more questions, I was struck by...

Venting My Spleen (Once Again)

Those of you following this blog for some time know there are some recurring themes in these posts.  Frequently, the blogs are my outlet for getting things off my chest that  frequently come up in my interactions with parents. If you’re a relative newcomer, I will...

Dyslexia (aka “Voldemort”) – “He Who Must Not Be Named”

Parents  frequently raise questions of dyslexia with their child’s school. When they report back to me how the conversation went, I get the feeling that the school goes into a sort of quiet hush mode, like they are talking about Voldemort – “He Who Must Not Be Named.”...

Reading Comprehension & School Bus Problems: Common Themes

When Kids struggle with reading comprehension, often there is an overlap in "real life” and the way the child interacts in their personal world. In this era of  automatically labeling and pathologizing an unwanted behavior  as “ADHD,” this overlap is something rarely...

Addressing Writing Disability

I am continually struck by the challenges struggling children face when it comes to their writing.  At a very basic level, they have little to no idea what goes into the writing of a sentence, no less a paragraph or a typical three-paragraph essay. For children who...

Brief Tip: Know What You Are Targeting

Many children referred for assessments are related to struggles with reading, spelling and writing. Not knowing what direction to go, parents feel a sense of desperation and need guidance on appropriate next steps. Once the issues are identified, the remediation,...

Compound Interest Mentality

Change does not come easily for any of us. Think about how deeply ingrained our personalities, habits and proclivities are. Fundamentally, we are who we are. Parents spend a lot of time trying to change children and I sometimes find that their efforts may be a bit too...

IEPs & 504s: A Brief Primer

Parents frequently ask about 504 Plans and IEP’s. Before getting too far into the weeds, I will respectfully ask the parents if they know the difference between them and what they even are. A majority of the time, I get a half shrug, coupled with a “not really.”...

ADHD…Maybe!

Practically every week I hear an array of  concerns regarding distractibility and inattentiveness. There's always the question lurking of, "Does my child have ADHD/ADD?" While talking to parents I try and  broaden the narrative,  reviewing other factors that may be...

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Dr. Selznick changed my daughter’s life. We met Dr. Selznick when she was in 8th grade, after advocating for her since 2nd grade. Dr. Selznick took a thorough history, evaluated her abilities, and spoke to Brooke with a kindness and understanding that was poorly missing on our educational journey. The resulting diagnosis, along with his academic recommendations, were pivotal in placing her appropriately in high school. She is now a junior in college and thriving. I know, for sure, without his intervention her story would have been different, and I’m forever grateful.

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