“Almost Heaven…”

                                                                                          “Almost heaven, West Virginia Blue Ridge Mountains, Shenandoah River”                                                                                                ...

Finding That Sweet Spot

Try this as an experiment.  Maybe you haven’t done them in some time, but try doing a few push-ups.  See how many you can do?  None? A couple?  10? 20? Regardless of the number that you can successfully complete,  there will be a point where you will hit a wall that...

The “One & Done” Child

There’s a certain kind of a child I see quite often I have come to call the, “One and Done Child.” What are some of the hallmark features of these children? These children lack what the shrink types refer to as “self-monitoring.”  That is, they aren’t oriented to...

Modifications? Direct Instruction?

Let’s say I’m a really bad tennis player, but I want to get better. I decide to go to a tennis pro and after sizing me up the pro gives me the following suggestions: Get a tennis racket with a bigger head size so you will miss the ball less Make sure to wear a...

Labeling Missing the Mark

I have never been comfortable labeling children. Labeling a child (or anyone for that matter) always seems so reductionist to me, as if the label could tell the whole story. As a society, though, we have become increasingly comfortable and casual with their use.  Not...