Just Do Your ‘Personal Best’

Kids are frequently told a lot that they need to be doing their “personal best.” Doesn’t that seem like an unfair standard?    Are you doing your “personal best?” If I were honest about it (and I would like not to be), I think I have failed at my personal best every...

Parenting Styles

As part of my constellation of professional activities, I often talk to parents about their child’s behavior.  Frequently, I find myself highlighting two fundamentally different styles of parenting. With “Reactive Parenting,” as the name implies when a negative...