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The Lens Through Which We See or the Doorstep We Land

To help parents better understand the issues with their kids, I have so  have so many expressions that I use that are in heavy rotation. Among my favorite are the following two: “It depends on whose doorstep you land on.” “It all comes down to the lens through which...

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Trying to Get Rid of the Clutter

One of the things about this time of year is my annual ritual of trying to beat back the clutter and piles surrounding me. Admittedly over the years I have been plagued with SHD, aka "Sentimental Hoarding Disorder." For example, if a magazine had anything about the...

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Finger Pointing

In  Struggling Kidland There’s often a lot of finger pointing taking place. Played out ritualistically on a near daily basis,  there’s the classic parent finger-pointing dance.  It’s the, “You’re too soft on him – You’re too tough on him" ballet.  While the parents...

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