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Draining the Joy of #Reading

  I’m not exactly sure when it occurred, when we collectively decided to drain the joy out of reading in early childhood, but it happened some time ago perhaps when we weren’t looking. The expression about the frog being boiled by degrees so he won’t jump out of...

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Our Explanations of Child Behavior

Maybe it’s me. Maybe it’s because I think back to an era where kids were rarely on medication even if their behavior was a bit off. Maybe it’s because of the lens through which I see kids. Parents will have lots of theories about their child’s behavior, often linked...

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Just Do Your ‘Personal Best’

Kids are frequently told a lot that they need to be doing their “personal best.” Doesn’t that seem like an unfair standard?    Are you doing your “personal best?” If I were honest about it (and I would like not to be), I think I have failed at my personal best every...

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‘What’s My Address? Where do I Live?’

As part of an assessment I always ask kids to write their name and address.  Lately, I’ve been noticing a troubling trend.  Increasingly, kids look at me blankly when it comes to the address part.  They don’t know where they live.  Look, I understand that for kids...

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Parenting Styles

As part of my constellation of professional activities, I often talk to parents about their child’s behavior.  Frequently, I find myself highlighting two fundamentally different styles of parenting. With “Reactive Parenting,” as the name implies when a negative...

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Screen Junkies?

Here are a couple of things to consider from an informal survey I have conducted with kids and the parents regarding the children they know in their social circle and at school: 95-99% of the kids starting at age 12 have cell phones. 95-99% of kids age 4 – 7 are...

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The Curriculum Ship Leaves Port

It’s early September. The “Curriculum Ship” is leaving the dock.   This ship moves full steam ahead with its goal of getting to the distant shore on the other side by about June 1st. About 70% of the kids can ride the ship pretty well.    While there may be a few ups...

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