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“‘Spilling the Milk’ & ‘You Owe Me’ – Child Behavior in Two Acts”
Since my latest book, Beyond the Power Struggle: A Guide to Challenging Kids, was published some months ago, I have had some interesting interactions – a number of different interviews and parents contacting me about their kid’s behavior. A nice surprise was a small...
A Few Points in School Struggling Land
Out there in school struggling land there are some common themes that I find myself saying over and over to parents to help them understand their kids better. Here are a few: Smooth Road and Rough Road Kids: Generally speaking kids are on one side or the other...
Common Core State Standards: (Lots of Luck)
Most of you probably remember a few years back when all of the buzz was No Child Left Behind (NCLB). Schools scrambled to meet the expectations of NCLB. Fast forward to 2013. No one seems to be talking about NCLB anymore. Its been put away in one of the many dustbins...
Homework Avoidance: That Pit in the Stomach Returns
It would be interesting if we could take a psychological temperature reading across the country while homework is being conducted, typically from four in the afternoon to about 9 oclock at night. My sense is that, in many households, the temperature rises steadily...
Going Old School: Looking in the Dustbins of the Education Attic
Having been in this business of education, psychology and school struggling for some time, there are a few “old school” concepts that I think still apply and are important for parents to keep in mind. These old school concepts reside in the dustbins of the...
Dyslexia: More Than a Score
***Note: (This blog was published some time ago, but due to a problem with the website it needed to be reposted. It has been revised.) I had the good fortune to recently take part on a panel during a symposium on dyslexia sponsored by the grassroots...
Keeping In Touch With Shut-Down Learner, School Struggles & “Dr. Selz”
If you receive this blog you may not know of other ways of staying in touch with “The Shut-Down Learner,” and Dr. Richard Selznick (“Dr. Selz”) updates. Here are a few: Facebook: Join “The Shut-Down Learner”...
Lost Opportunities
So much of a child’s world can be framed in an ongoing series of different skills. For example, some kids have the “skill of” saying hello and greeting someone for the first time. Others may have the “skill of” manners in...
Writing – Throwing the Child in the Deep End of the Pool
Let’s say you have a little child, perhaps five or six years of age. He doesn’t know how to swim, so you decide it’s time to give him lessons. What if the swim instructor said something like, “You know we have strict standards for six year olds and we have...
The Work-Sheeting of Childhood
I recently met parents of a child named Cameron who is showing all of the signs of early school struggling. As parents will often do, they brought in sample of the child’s work. The picture attached to this blog represents all of the worksheets that...
Dyslexia and the Old Masters: A brief look back
About a month or so ago I had the honor to present to a group of parents of dyslexic children on Staten Island. The group, Wishes of Literacy, is doing great work in their advocacy for parents and they are joining forces with the burgeoning grassroots Decoding...