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“We Live In a Decaying Age”

Most adults of a certain generation (let’s say north of 50 years) typically shake their collective head in bewilderment over children and the way they conduct themselves. There’s always an undercurrent of, “What’s the matter with kids these days?” I’ve been working on...

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“We Got the Diagnosis”

Most struggling children that I know have what I have refer to as a “soup pot of variables" interacting to a greater or lesser degree depending upon a variety circumstances. You know what I mean with the “soup pot.” In the pot, there can be a helping of reading...

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Our Theories & Explanations: #Child

When you are in “Child Land,” there are all kinds of theories and explanations as to why children do what they do.  More than another generation, the explanations are tied into medical explanations or what I refer to as “disorder thinking."   This type of...

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“What’s the Ratio?”

In the consulting done with parents regarding their children’s school issues, I often talk about the “ratio,” that is the percentage of parent involvement with homework and other school work. Even though it goes counter to the approach often adopted by parents, I find...

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Wrestling With My “Underself”

There’s always that point  in the assessment process  that I know is coming that frequently gives me an anticipatory, somewhat squeamish feeling.  Let’s  call it, “The final chapter.” (Underself immediately jumps in responding  to Self: “Really? After, at least 9, 995...

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“Is ADHD a Valid Disorder?”

“‘I think the current diagnosis of ADHD is a mess and has been wildly overdone.  It blames a variety of symptoms entirely on the child’s brain, and ignores the child’s environment and the interaction with it.’” (Philadelphia Inquirer, William B. Carey, pediatrician,...

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