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Parenting Styles

As part of my constellation of professional activities, I often talk to parents about their child’s behavior.  Frequently, I find myself highlighting two fundamentally different styles of parenting. With “Reactive Parenting,” as the name implies when a negative...

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Screen Junkies?

Here are a couple of things to consider from an informal survey I have conducted with kids and the parents regarding the children they know in their social circle and at school: 95-99% of the kids starting at age 12 have cell phones. 95-99% of kids age 4 – 7 are...

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The Curriculum Ship Leaves Port

It’s early September. The “Curriculum Ship” is leaving the dock.   This ship moves full steam ahead with its goal of getting to the distant shore on the other side by about June 1st. About 70% of the kids can ride the ship pretty well.    While there may be a few ups...

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Hooks in the Mental Closet

As part of an assessment I recently asked 17- year-old near senior, Bethany, “Who wrote Hamlet?”  Looking bewildered, she said, “I have no idea.” Then, when asked to define the word “tranquil,” she could not further no guess.  Bethany had no association to the word....

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What’s in Your Child’s Pie Chart?

When talking to parents about their children I am continually using metaphors, imagery that can help parents to better understand their children. One of  the favorite images I use refers to  the “pie cart” of childhood.  How we divide up the pie is the concern that I...

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