This week on my Twitter feed, I came upon an article that talked about a billionaire who felt that his dyslexia was a “gift.” In his mind, it was the primary reason for his success as a businessman.
Many businessmen and women get their inspiration to start their own business from somewhere. Without it, they won’t have the drive that is needed to build a successful company from the ground up. Whilst in this case someone took their inspiration from dyslexia, it could come from a wide array of things including learning new skills and being able to call something their own.
The truth is that some people don’t excel working in professional workplaces under employers. Whilst the creating of the resume is easy because you can contact somewhere like ARC Resumes in PA (https://www.arcresumes.com/local/pennsylvania/) to give you a helping hand in finding a job, it may not be what you expected, thus causing you to move onto other things, including starting your own business.
Having that primary reason to start your own business, like the businessman with dyslexia, you could find that it is the gift you need to help you excel in your chosen field.
When it comes to dyslexia, I get it.
Dyslexics have an array of “gifts.” In my book, The Shut Down Learner, the essential theme is that kids (and adults) with dyslexia often have this incredible other side to them – that is, the creative, spatial, visual side. This allows them to flourish in so many ways that often are not recognized in school.
In fact, in the back of the book I list about 50 different jobs that tend to “pull” for dyslexics. These range from trades, such as automotive engineering, plumbing and landscaping, to professions, such as engineering and architecture, as well as a variety of creative endeavors, such as video production.
I understand the “gift side.” I also think it’s important not to lose sight of the pain and the anguish that also comes with having a learning disability like dyslexia.
How does dyslexia affect everyday life?
This week alone I evaluated three different kids, all at various levels of development, who turned out to be dyslexic.
Each child was fun, spirited and vibrant in their style. However, I also detected the deep insecurity and embarrassment that they felt from struggling with reading, spelling and writing.
Take Mary Beth, age 10, a twin who detests reading (and spelling and writing).
For Mary Beth, school is a daily embarrassment that she quietly stifles in terms of keeping her feelings under wraps. She feels like she is constantly running a race at a 45 degree angle (with hurdles) while everyone else is on a level track. When she sees her twin brother blithely sailing along in school, she’s not feeling all that fortunate about “the gift.”
I see a girl like Mary Beth, who would normally at her age love reading, saying she hates it. When I hear from her parents that there is almost a nightly ritual of tears and crying, I think that the billionaire’s view is a bit short-sighted.
Focus on the strengths and recognize the gifts, but you can’t ignore the pain.