Month: April 2011
Many times parents (moms) sense that something is wrong with their child and want to have the child evaluated in school. Once the mom raises the issue, often she hears a version of the following, “Well, she’s getting good grades – what’s the problem?” The mom walks away thinking that she was being unduly concerned as the request for testing is denied, and she is given the impression that she is over-worrying.
Having been raised by a father who enjoyed playing the horses, I have been well-acquainted with how odds work, and I often find myself looking for the best horse racing tips so I can make a bit of quick cash here and there.
No, this is not going to be an essay on how to win at the track, but it is one on changing the odds. You can learn to bet on sports elsewhere if you’re looking for tips, but we’re doing life lessons today.
Kids rarely think about changing the odds in school, yet they should. They need to be schooled in odds. These are the kinds of skills that can prove very useful in adult life. People that can learn things like odds from a young age may even go on to do things like Buy a betting shop when they’re older. However, if you already have these skills, this may be something you look towards doing now.
Take the conversation I had this week with James a very sincere, 20 year old, junior in college. Among other things, James told me how hard it was for him to pay attention when he was in lecture hall. I dont know why I just tune out, James said. I always had trouble with lectures.
Let me guess, I said to him. When you arrive at the lecture hall, youre not thinking about much, right? You kind of land wherever you land in the class. Then about ten minutes into the lecture, you pull out your cell phone and check the internet. About 15 minutes or so into the lecture you start texting your friends. Twenty minutes in you have no notes written, have no idea whats going on and are dying to get out of the class. Is that your experience?
James grinned widely thinking I was some kind of prescient mind reader.
I said to James, Seriously, would you bet on that horse? Now, if we were actually going to be betting on horses then it might have been a wise idea to look at the likes of these GG tips for UK horse racing (at this point I wanted to take after my father and maybe place a bet or two myself!). However, there are no such tips for the other side of this analogy. It could have been a long stretch to make him understand what I was trying to get at, although he knew exactly what I meant, luckily.
So, James, Lets look at a different horse. lets change the odds. Maybe there are little things you could do to change the odds a bit. For example, one thing you might want to do is sit closer to the teacher. Just changing your position in class may help you pay attention.
How about trying to make some pictures on the right side of the page along with some written notes? That might help you get more connected. (James liked drawing.)
Lets also say, you forced yourself to jot down at least five questions that came up from the teachers lecture. These questions would be ones that you predict might occur later on a test. Forming questions might help you be a more active listener.
Compare horse A to horse B above which one will you pick?
James got the message immediately and seemed excited to try a couple of the suggestions.
Helping James see that he could improve his odds was a good first step. It will take a long time for James to fully buy in, but it was a start. He was at least thinking about the odds, something he never had previously.
Now, off to the races.