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“Parent Brain” & the Anger River

Last week we talked about the “Anger River” that resides, often unseen, beneath the “ADD Swamp. ”  Control battles, punishments and other attempts at compliance feed the river.  (See Anger River:   https://shutdownlearner.com/the-anger-river-below-the-add-swamp/)...

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The Anger River Below the ADD Swamp

Do you know about the river that lies below the ADHD/ADD swamp?  It’s the Anger River and it lurks down below, often unseen, but detected at times by certain actions or behaviors from either child or parents. How do we detect the Anger River? Punishments have...

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Self-Monitoring (Not really)

Flexibility of thinking and problem solving are two interacting skills impacting academic and social functioning.   Children who have difficulty with these also have trouble with “self-monitoring,” that is the ability to be aware of the correctness of your output to a...

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The ADHD “Test”

Rating scales frequently are used as the “tests” to determine whether or not the child has  ADHD (as if ADHD  can be diagnosed like a broken bone).  (“Yep, it says here on these scale that your child has ADHD.”) The fact of the matter is the vast majority of kids...

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The Micromanaging of Childhood

It’s an admirable goal that parents want to be kept informed of their child’s academic and behavioral progress.  In the “Way-Back Machine” before modern technology (yes, that time did exist ), parents were periodically informed about how their child was doing in...

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